Knickers / Pants

As a spanker, that mainly depends on whether it's a spanking which should involve embarrassment as part of it, and from that, whichever one is more embarrassing for the spanker.

If it's a spanking party and you're not so familiar with the person, generally I think it avoids unwanted contact if the spanker pulls them down themselves. Assuming they're ok being bare, of course, which is a separate question.

As a spanker it is an either or situation.  Different people have different or varying connections.

It depends for me who I’m playing with tbh.  I do love (?!?) being required to take down my knickers and presenting my bottom to be spanked. It is (mildly) humiliating and feels very submissive. I do suspect through that these strong feelings are only evoked when I am required by my significant other as they carry more weight.  However, when he removes them himself, that in itself makes me feel very exposed and is also very enjoyable. 
So, to conclude -  guess I like both and can’t seem to make my mind up which is the normal state of affairs for me! 🤣 

@five_foot_two So what you're saying is that you need more opportunities to help you decide? 😊

I would suggest that a lady might be more embarrassed by having to reach back and push down her panties herself. That is my preferred choice.

As a spanker I sit in both camps, there is a wonderful feeling when inserting my fingers into the waistband and slowly pulling the knickers down.

But equally there is a great feeling watching a naughty girl taking down her own underwear, thinking about what is about to happen.

The good thing is to do both in the same play 🤣 🤣 🤣 

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@five_foot_two So what you're saying is that you need more opportunities to help you decide? 😊

I guess practice makes perfect 😁

I do enjoy taking them down. That slow reveal of the bottom to be spanked or caned is a wonderful moment. 

Always an interesting topic of discussion and for me it depend on the mood. 

For me to take them down as a Spanker it shows assertiveness and dominance

For me to tell a spankee take down your knickers, and for her to obey, that to me shows compliance, and submissiveness

I guess for me it depends whether I want to be assertive and dominant or I am looking for the lady to be compliant and submissive

There is no "right" or "wrong" answer

As a spanker I usually prefer the spankee stood in front of me with their hands on their head whilst I bare their bottom.

Watching the spankee bare their own bottom can be fun too, but I prefer doing it myself haha!

For me, taking them down myself is more submissive.  Having them taken down is more associated with control.  Each have their own place depending upon the chemistry and scene. 

I like both approaches but feel if the spanking is being given is to be more serious, the girl in question should be told to lower her knickers herself. I find that generally gets the young lady in the right headspace.

I Think either is best it depends on the situation and what will cause the most embarrassment to the person in question <EVIL GRIN>

Mal or M (You decide) 

personally, I see knickers, panties - whatever you want to call them - as an aid to presentation of my bottom, and most of the Spankers when preparing me for a spanking seem to enjoy the unwrapping 😘